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The Art of Timing: When to Wait, When to Act

Everything in life is about timing. If it’s meant to happen, it will, at the right time, for the right reasons. One becomes comfortable with this reality only with time itself,  the outcome of any decision, either financial, personal or otherwise, heavy relies on the timing of your action.  We often hear,  “Trust the timing of your life,”  but unfortunately,I feel that we see it more as an excuse from putting an effort to work, where as this statement itself sheds light on a totally different perspective. It refers to prepare yourself preemptively so that  when life opens a door for you , you’re ready to walk right   through it, without hesitation or regret. Whether it’s falling in love, changing jobs, starting a business, or making an investment, correct timing is the game changer and it determines either you will end up in    success or struggle.  But how do we know when the  time is right ? Is it some inner voice or a matter of luck ;...

To Be Selfless in Love… or Selfish?

Love is one of the most beautiful human expression but it brings with it feelings like happiness, confusion, longing etc. One of the hardest questions we face in relationships is this: Should love be selfless or selfish ?  We believe that real love is about giving without expectation and it’s noble to put someone else’s needs before our own. That unconditional love is the highest form of love. And when it's genuine, it sound like this :  “I love you, simply for who you are” That kind of love is pure. But I feel here comes the hidden complication : when love is given endlessly without limits or setting up boundaries , it often becomes invisible . In reality when you contribute unconditionally without limits into something , that love gets out of sight.Others start taking it for granted. Not because they are not good enough , but because they've never seen you ask for anything. They see you not as a person who  chooses  to give, you're a person  assumed  to g...

Chase your heights ; the eagle’s way.

On the broad stretches of the sky, flies the mighty eagle. Its wide wings unfolded, it is a bird of power, elegance and fierce autonomy. It does not flock with other birds. It flies alone, with a single, determined objective. I have always had a fascination with the big bird and watch endless documentaries on it. Observing an eagle brings me to relate it with the type of people who manage to overcome the adversities of life. It's not only the majestic wings of an eagle that distinguish it from the rest ; it's the  attitude  it possesses. Let’s have a look at some of the similarities I observed. The power of independence and clarity An eagle flies alone, soaring to the heights no other bird would ever attempt. Its line is uncluttered, its eyes focused. In humans, some of us too, welcome solitude. As life starts to happen, we do begin to acknowledge that in order to be great, sometimes we have to stand alone and distant ourselves from the crowd. We don't have to follow the tr...

In the quiet when the heart remembers

The secret longing in the heart does not roar, it’s  the humming of a bird resting quietly on the branch of a tree in the middle of the night. Its song are deep ,not made of words but as if the heart itself found wings and flew away, wandering in search of the reason never known but unmistakably felt. You can’t hear it ,it’s in the silence, felt in the shivers crossing your skin, in the quiet ache deep within yourself .It says nothing, yet you know what it means, lingers on with you like a memory that doesn’t fade away. This yearning, this strange unshakeable pull shows up like an uninvited guest. It arrives in hush, suddenly like a dream you woke up with ,confusing you to think what your reality might be .Its like the haunting howl of a lone wolf crying into the night, it echoes in the far reaches of the soul. It doesn't have any logical explanation.It remains undefined. You can't track it back to a moment or attribute it to a reason. It simply is permanent. Unwavering. An in...